Does haircut after breakup work
Hello friends, this is Nisha
I recently had a very bad breakup with my boyfriend. He cheated on me. These days most of the time i spend in crying. I have seen in movies that girls get haircuts to feel better after their breakup. Is this true? Has anyone you know tried this ? Which haircut should i get?
Update:
Nisha along with her Mom has got haircut check this link for details:
Me and Mom got haircut by Nisha
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Yes it’s true
U can cut the hair
Chintu
Which haircut doyou suggest i should get. Also has any of your female friend got a haircut after her breakup. did it help?
Niagara,
Most of the ppl want to change their look after a break up to feel better. Yu can have a haircut, like a bob Or so..
Vasu,
Even i feel the same way, that it is going to be a new phase of my life and i should look different now. Lets see. I am not sure though.
Nisha,
May I know how much hair u have now and how much u r willing to cut and do a make over..?
Vasu, my hair is mid back, maybe slightly longer. I am not sure how much i should cut. I just know i am open for a change now.
I suggest you a Bob cut
Yes my cousin sister cut her hair after her breakup …
She feel better
Thanks
wow chintu, it is great to know that girls actually cut hair after breakup.
Bob sounds really nice. it will be a very new change for me. never had such short hair before
Nisha,
U can try new styles like asymetric bob, bob with bangs, undercut bob.. thy r in trend now. U can even chnge ur dressing style. May I know how old r u..?
I am 23 years old. I generally wear punjabi dresses or tshirt and jeans.
U think i should cut mybhair that short?
Now not waste your time in argument n just go saloon n chop this hair
If your mom agree u can call stylist at home you should enjoy a lot ..
you mean i should call barber at home?
Yes
U can call if your family have no problems..
My family wont have any problem. infact my mom too can get haircut, if we call the barber home.
Nisha,
BTW, wat is ur age..? U can cut ur hair like bob, asymetric bob, bob with fringes, undercut bob, pixie cut to change ur look.
I am 23 years old.
My friends are suggesting me pixie too. Lets see. I will talk to my mom about calling barber home. Lets see.
Also i am online right now. So do keep checking this page after every few minutes for my reply… ha ha ha… i will be online for atleast till 7 pm today.
Its weekend. U can do it today or tomorrow.. go fr a pixie cut and rock it girl..
Let me check with mom, i will ask her if she also wamts haircut then we can call barber home. Never done that before.
Come on.. everythng has a 1st time..
Sure, i agree. I am definately going to cut my hair. Just not sure how much. I am considering bon as one option.
Someone also mentioned i should change my clothing style. Should i?
Tat was me who suggested to chnge clothing style.. but u r wearing both modern and traditional dresses, so u can carry on with ur presnt style as u wish.
But Nisha… we want pixie cut.. we want pixie.. we want pixiee.. pixiee.. pixieee..
OMG, pixie would be too short i guess… ha ha…. but the thought of it excites me. Ha ha ha
I am thinking of trying out some good outfits to make my ex bf jealous. So probably i will buy a skirt. I have never worn a skirt before. Only simple jeans and tshirt.
U r excited about pixie style.. better try once atleast.. u can wear skirt and make him(ex bf) jealous.. he he he.. lets hear it frm yu.. go fr pixie.. pixiee pixieee.. PIXIEEE..
I will definately think of pixie. Just give me some time to think about it. It gives me butterflies in my stomach when i think about going so short, specially when i always had long hair and it is more than midback now.
U r 23 now, so u can experiment with ur hair.. u dnt have to worry as hair will always grow..try somethng diffrnt.. come out of ur safe zone and do it..
I completely agree with you. My mom too says that you can experiment now. After a few years they wont allow me to experiment once they start lookimg for my marriage. So i am considering either a bob or pixie. Lets see. But pixie really gives butterflies in my stomach. Also a short above knee skirt is already something out of my comfort zone. Ha ha ha
Yes..Nisha, keep ur spirit lvl up and go fr pixie.. wen the hair grows u can have bob later.. kudos to ur mom’s support..
Oh i had never thought of that. If i get pixie, while growing out hair i can get a bob…. Ha ha ha.
But will it look good on skirt?
is any other dress recommended.
Yes pixie will suit in skirt, jean t-shrt, even traditional saree will suit.. so dnt worry about it..
Chintu,
I am asking mom because i want to stay in house and not get removed for chopping off my hair. ha ha ha…. She dosent know about my breakukp. I have told her i need a change.
Her hair is mid back. Not as long as mine. Almost exactly to the centre of her back.
Vasu
Mom says i will look like gul panag if i get a pixie.
U ask ur mom anything ????
Or u r just chatting…???
Just ask today n call barber home tomorrow n get pixi ..
How’s your mom hair ? How much she wants cut ? Which style ??
All dress sutes in pixi
Clothes sutes in face not in haircut
well dresses are concerns for me because in some days college festivals will start and i will have to wear saree on saree day and probably i will try one piece dress also.
Gul Panag.. lol.. tat sounds great.. then go fr the pixie..
yeah lets see, I was checking some pics online, even mandira bedi looks good in pixie cut and saree, that is quite encouraging. I too like wearing sarees like her.
Tomorw is sunday.. fix an appoinmnt with the hair stylist. As u have more than mid back hair, u can donate the hair fr cancer patients without wasting. U rock Nisha..
oh wow… donating is also a good idea vasu. I can definately donate. My mom also wants to get a haircut so i think i can call hairstylist home. Will try to get appointment but i think i will not get an appointment for today lets see.
I am teasing mom that she should also chop off her hair… ha ha ha….
Lol.. no hurry.. u can get it chopped tomorrow.. u can ask ur mom to donate hair. Atleast 15inches should be donated I think.. u can ask mom to cut 15inches.. anyways u r gonna cut pixie, so it wont b a prblm fr yu.
True. Since i am getting pixie i think i will be donating 20 inches. Ha ha ha…. but if mom has to donate she too will have to get a pixie, since her hair is short.
Oh.. but, if mom is ok fr pixie, both of u can donate.. else yu alone donate.. dont yu worry about dress. Pixie in saree will look awesome.. even 1 piece dress will suit..
I dont think Mom will cut hair. I am only havimg fun teasing mom to get short haircut.
i will definately donate.
Good then.. let mom have a trim.. dont waste time.. fix an appointment with hairstylist, chop and send it to ppl who help cancer patients. I hope yu know the address where to send ur chopped hair..
I have already taken appointment, but since sundays are most busy, barber has said that he will try to come but not sure. He will try to come early in the morning at 9 am. If there are many clients then not possible.
Ok.. will keep fingers crossed until tomorw morning.. we hope to get an update tat yu got a PIXIE cut..
Yes. I will be barely able to sleep tonight.
Meanwhile can u suggest me about clothes?
All clothes will suit.. just avoid wearind shirt kind, it will look like tomboy. Dangling earrings will project ur face, so go fr big earrings. All other dresses will suit.. dnt wrry..
Thanks vasu.
I hope skirts and one piece will suit too. Also saree on saree day.
Vasu ur a naughty boy. I read in some other post that on ur advice some girl called vijaya got piercings !! That too multiple in her ears !!
Hey nisha u call the barber?
Chintu,
yes i called the barber home. But he said he will be only able to come home if there are mo clients in salon. So he will try to come at 9 am in morning. But not sure.
Hmm
What’s your mom’s haircut plan?
Mom will get trim only… say around 2 inches cut. And layers.
Nisha,
This being anonymous site, evry1 post their questions, and ask fr suggestions. Like wise, she(ananya) had asked fr piercing suggestion to surprise her hubby, so I had provided some inputs..
Vasu… not her… there is some girl divya in the post… my haircut experience by divya… check that out too.
hi nisha gud to hear that you are going to get pixie cut
trust me it wud be ur best decision ever
i too got a pixie cut and donated my hair
Yeah I read it
Just waiting 4 tomorrow
To get news abt ur pixi cut
I am not able to sleep due to tomorrows anticipation. Butterflies in stomach.
hey nisha everything is gonna be okay
but wen getting cut pls get some front bangs type cut as it makes us look feminine and avoids tomboy look
the mistake i did is got my haircut totally short with 2inch bangs in forehead
by that im mistaken as a guy
Read the whole story with comments getting pixie is a nice move u can also do many otherthings to feel happy and leave behind your ex.
stay happy always .
Divya, donnt worry.. now u have 5 piercings in ur ears, so u wont b mistaken as a boy π its good to see young indian girls like yu coming out of safe zone and trying new and trending hairstyles. On Seeing u two(Divya, Nisha), other girls may also follow ur hairstyle. So hats-off to yu girls. yu are awesome.. Keep rockng..
Guys barber has come home i will be sitting in front of him now. Talk to u guys in sometime. Also i have a small surprise for u all.
all the best nisha
Good morning Divya &Nisha & All.
All the best nisha..
Nisha its over??
Guys i have created a seperate post for my haircut details please check “Me and mom got haircut by nisha”
If you are not able to find the link u can get the link in the content of this post also. Just refresh your page you will find link just below my question in this post.
βIt is not like he broke up with us because we arenβt beautiful, changing our looks does not bring him back, or make him regret, it just has you sitting at work with jacked hair and a head full of too many bobby pins,β Heffernan wrote.
Its not for him. He is a past now and no longer part of my life. But I am at the start of new phase of life and now i am a coMpletely different person than what i was when i was with him. And i think new look is just a part of moving on. I am a new person now mentally as well as visually. Much stronger, much more wiser and much more smart looking !!
U r right nisha